My insecurities in pictures 


This post is incredibly personal but I also feel as though it it very necessary. There are some parts that may be triggering so please read with caution. 

Through blogging you get to know people, and you get to know them very well because most people share things over their blog that they wouldn’t share in their day to day life. I write posts that are far far far more personal and deep than anything I will ever tell my closest friends. However whenever I imagine what all of those lovely bloggers look like, it seems so easy to forget that they have flaws and imperfections too, because when you imagine what someone looks like you rarely add on those little things that make everyone so different from one another. 

As someone who is very shy and also has always had a lot of issues with my appearance this post has been very scary to make, but I have decided that it is so important that I’m going to but my own fears aside. In this post are pictures of parts of myself that I am insecure about or things that I conciser flaws in myself (please excuse the underwear that is visible in some). I feel like I need to share these, because it’s so easy to get wrapped up in self hatred through feeling as though everyone else is perfect, even though perfection doesn’t really exist. I’m hoping that this will help at least one person come to terms with their appearance just a little bit more.

The two bellow pictures are of my right and left upper thighs, they both have old scars on them.

I have also included a picture of my entire thighs because they are my biggest insecurity. I hate my legs. I feel as though they are too big and I have always wished for a ‘thigh gap’.

This is a patch of darker skin above my belly button, I have no idea where it came from or why it’s there, but I really don’t like it.

These are some stretch marks on the inside of my thigh, I was so upset and ashamed when I noticed them. 

I’ve always hated this odd spot thing on the side of my neck and it always makes me hate wearing tops that have low neck lines.

My hands are another big insecurity, i hate how short and stumpy my fingers are.

My hair, as much as I like the length and colour, it’s really thin and lacks volume, I’m always scared I’m going bald as there isn’t much of it.

This is an area of spot on my shoulder, they make me feels really self conscious if I’m wearing anything with thin straps or if I’m in a swimming costume.

I’ve never really liked my stomach, but my big issue at the moment is my waist/hips, I really wish I had a more defined waist or wider hips.

All of the images above are perfectly normal, and the only reason I actually want to change any of them is really because of the media and the idea that the only way to be beautiful is to look like the models in magazines. I really wish I found it easier to ignore those images and just love my body as it is, but it’s not that easy; we all deal with our insecurities, and they may not ever go away, but maybe learning to accept them will help me become at least a little bit happier with myself. I really hope these pictures will be of some use, I just really want to help normalise these aspects of the human body and hopefully in the future they won’t have to be considered flaws any more. 

I really hope this post hasn’t upset or offended anyone as that is certainly not my intention, but if I have please let me know and I will make any changes as soon as I can. 

Thank you for reading!

The small quiet one X


12 thoughts on “My insecurities in pictures 

  1. manonfirewy says:

    There is so much beauty in our weaknesses and imperfections. These are the things that make us human. But for others to treat our physical appearance as a weakness or imperfection is both shallow and ignorant. We are all as beautiful as we want to be. We are all human and we give to the world as much as we want. Beauty is from our hearts, not our bodies.

    Thank you for having the courage to share yourself with us. You’re beautiful.

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  2. We shouldn’t compare ourselves to anyone. We don’t need to look like anyone in this world because that totally defeats the purpose of being unique and special. We can strive to be healthy but why do we need to slaughter away to be slim and thin, with a perfect hour glass figure, curves in the backside and front, but never the stomach, slender legs yet it’s not good enough if your calves are too muscular?

    It is very brave of you to post this and I am in awe of your courage. I want to tell you how even though you may consider yourself not to be all perfect, you are beautiful regardless of what the media deems is beauty.

    Keep smiling

    P.S what are three things you love about yourself?

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  3. None of these things are “unattractive” whatsoever. As you said, it’s all just ridiculous ideas that are drummed into us every day by the media-and most of it is photoshopped beyond recognition, anyway. You’re lovely.I think you should do a post where you talk about the things you most like about yourself too sometime 🙂 x

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  4. I don’t see anything wrong on this photos. We all have flaws that we have to learn to accept. Sometimes doing that is really hard because media is constantly showing us how we are supposed to look. I think it is really brave of you to open up and share your story.

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